Speaking of children
*Barbara
Holland
The essay reflects on arguments
against the practice of having many children. Generally, a single child is a
boon and plural children are curse. Parents can bring up one child with due
attention but plural children can trouble their parents badly. They pile up
telephone bills, shout for early dinner, break rules, litter the house and
spoil the harmony of life. Parents have to spend a lot of time by feeding,
clothing, educating and fulfilling all their demands.
According to the essayist
(Holland), one child is second to none (unique) like the most necessary part of
our body. One child can early be given good training and taught standard
principles to achieve higher goal and success.
On the other hand, plural children
are obstacles to their parent’s peace and progress. Piles of dirty laundry and
pots, big bills to pay, silly actions in the house all these things add much
trouble to parents responsibilities.
One child makes social prestige and
can be carried to important places and parties. Whereas, plural children are peace
breakers because they deteriorate internal and external environment.
Barbara Holland appears both as a
mother and wife in the essay. She experiences mental and emotional disorder
being a mother of plural children. As a wife her private life and freedom is
violated by the long term presence of her children and their whimsical demands.
More
attention seeking than fathers. As a result, mothers have to be on standby
spending maximum time with their children. Mothers are also wives. This double
role of women in a big family creates misunderstanding between wife and
husband, and mother and children.
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